Thanks for answering.
I hope that now you will see that many of us poorer members have baggage from how ruthless the site has become.
They have taken everything that is dear to us away. Increased rates far far above inflation. Gave us less and less.
I'm bitter. When not in the mood it is often better not to chat. So you see it is not you or any particular performer that has made us all silent. It is the "Game" has caused so much noise and distraction. It may be working for some members who enjoy the tipping bar room atmosphere. It is my assumption that many tippers are not in favor of whispering.
Did you know that we now have to pay for an advertisement in our face when we go private now? Does the site want to take the private option away from us also?
The cards are stacked against us. Please take note of Jelly's comments.
if I may suggest, keep chipping away at the stone, keep building loyalty, it takes a lot of investment in time and effort and you loyal fans will most likely reciprocate. At least you are trying.
Wich is another point I should of stressed, Loyalty. If you can keep a more or less REGULAR SCHEDULE. That will go a long way in helping us see that we can rely on you being here when we need you. Again it looks like models are shifting their times on in very irregular paterns. Makes me wonder if this is also planned by the site.
One final word, Is whispering so difficult to handle? With all the tools at your disposal, Would it be better to let us have to option of whispering with all its problems if it helps us get into private?
I do see your side of the equation now and I feel for you. As a 'client' of flirt, I have not done a private, only groups, party and random tips. I feel like my past as an e.scort totally helped in my knowing how to treat my customers and show them that I am not a different person when the camera is turned off. They get to see ME - I am no one else but me and very very real (sometimes too trusting with minor things like life problems n stuff). I'm told that it is refreshing, so I'll keep doign it. Yes - sometimes my room has the sexy vibe but miostly i'm just the girl next door in jeans n t-shirt chatting with my friends I put in 14 hours yesterday because I had so much fun! I made barely NOTHING, but it wasn't about that - I was making new friends, singing silly songs lol it was great....could this be why ppl don't talk/stay? Because there isn't the 'come hither' type vibe in my room? I'm cracking jokes and having fun....forgetting to 'play' sexy most times until it's time :D I also ALWAYS put someone in their place (firm but educating not attacking the person as an individual) before I ban them...to see if I can't get thru to them. I wonder what the people are thinking that come in during that time. It can't look good. I have so many questions about 'customer' service here, that I don't even know where to begin
Thank you for opening my eyes as to why this is happening, it lets me know that it's more than likely NOT just me. It makes me sad though, for sure.
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5/11/12 @ 1:01pm
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Location: In your chatroom!!!
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COUCH!!! Where the hell have you been?? I've missed you!
OMG!!! Thread Hijacker!!!!!
Sorry hun, havent been on flirt much the last month. Plus our timing and mine hasnt meshed much since you went Nomadic.
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1. I have an auto running in my room but I make sure I wave and say hello personally as well.
2. Not in my room.
3. I have kicked and banned I think 3 times. All those times were needed. Using the "N" word and insulting me.
4. Not in my room.
5. I'm sorry, but I have the chance to be a little more successful I'm going to do it. If you don't like the models rats then their are lots of other girls on the site that you can chat with.
6. HD in my room
7. Not a problem.
8. I don't beg.
9. I make it a point to show something after every tip. (unless it's like 5 credits lol)
10. I chat back.
11. I think when people come see me they should talk to me lol. Quote
OMG!!! Thread Hijacker!!!!!
Sorry hun, havent been on flirt much the last month. Plus our timing and mine hasnt meshed much since you went Nomadic.
lmao I am pretty unpredictable!
Couch, don't be a stranger. It's Boobie O' Clock somewhere.
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sure, some changes on the site not really be good. but i think, first together we make this site to a good place for everybody here.
if some members be angry about rates or whatever, please don't hit the performer. ;)
we spend our time for YOU
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5/11/12 @ 8:36pm
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One thing I see that has hardly been mentioned is non responsive models. The # of times I have tried to chat with a.model who just sitsthere like a statue is sadly growing. They only seem to respond to being as led if they want a pvt.
Then they are on you like ants over a picnic
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One thing I see that has hardly been mentioned is non responsive models. The # of times I have tried to chat with a.model who just sitsthere like a statue is sadly growing. They only seem to respond to being as led if they want a pvt.
Then they are on you like ants over a picnic
They always respond at first.
If you have not submitted a tip or pvt, then you are invisible. I did in fact sublemly suggest this in the line, as being dismissed after the obligatory " hello, how are you?"
I am trying to estimate how long we have in " unlimited free chat " . my best guess is 2.5 minutes before you become invisable.
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5/13/12 @ 5:22pm
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Location: where prince charming ruined all the fun
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Then great for the models who can command the higher rates.
But the original topic was a question as to why do members not chat, and I listed premier rates as one in quite a few reasons many stay silent. It was not an attack on ludicrus rates, it was an explaination. Quote
One thing I see that has hardly been mentioned is non responsive models. The # of times I have tried to chat with a.model who just sitsthere like a statue is sadly growing. They only seem to respond to being as led if they want a pvt.
Then they are on you like ants over a picnic
thank you suggs for you minds. i know non responding models will be the same problem for guys (girls) who like to talk.
But you go to other rooms and look for other models. But sometimes i understand the silent models too.
For many weeks i stay in a silent room and don't get any answer of of the guys. Not for talk, not for jokes, not for dance or tease. Nothing.
btw. nonstop demanders i don't count as talk ;)
I tell it again, It's a chatsite i think, not only free tv. And the conclution for the models will be anytime: the guys ignores me, then i ignore the guys or close.
Many thanks for a bit of understanding. Talk here is really free. Try it
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5/14/12 @ 1:34pm
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I tend to stiffen up and be a little scared of chatting when I get put into a room with higher rates. Or it suddenly changes. It tends to make me quiet, I imagine it may have the same effect on others. There is of course tipping and to wait for party or group. But it makes me a little quieter. Quote
nobody like to chat and stay silent ?
is not really funny to act like a radio moderator and don't get any response
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I tend to stiffen up and be a little scared of chatting when I get put into a room with higher rates. Or it suddenly changes. It tends to make me quiet, I imagine it may have the same effect on others. There is of course tipping and to wait for party or group. But it makes me a little quieter.
lol. if i choose a rate of 15cpm nobody talk too.
really anyway what rate we have for pvt. TALK IS FREE
and to stay many time in a room of silent guys with no response,
anyway what i do, anyway what rate i choose make it really boring
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1. I have an auto running in my room but I make sure I wave and say hello personally as well.
2. Not in my room.
3. I have kicked and banned I think 3 times. All those times were needed. Using the "N" word and insulting me.
4. Not in my room.
5. I'm sorry, but I have the chance to be a little more successful I'm going to do it. If you don't like the models rats then their are lots of other girls on the site that you can chat with.
6. HD in my room
7. Not a problem.
8. I don't beg.
9. I make it a point to show something after every tip. (unless it's like 5 credits lol)
10. I chat back.
11. I think when people come see me they should talk to me lol.
I like your direct answers. Nice picture by your entry too.
I wonder if it would be an interesting experiment to try with the auto-greater off just to see if it generates a more enthusiastic responce?
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yup
Also dont expect them to talk when there is hockey, football or another game is on. May all their TVs die. lol
Ha.
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