Have notice that there are some viewers making requests of a performer to to do something and they they will either tip or take the performer private. Seems after hounding the performer and not getting the result they have asked for it tends to result in insults made by the viewer.
Would just like to point out to those who do this to take into account that many performers are on the site for specific reasons and not here to be treated in such a way.
It is one thing to make a request but treating performers on the site this way is somewhat disgusting.
I am pretty sure this forum thread will get a bit of flack, and frankly do not care.
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Have notice that there are some viewers making requests of a performer to to do something and they they will either tip or take the performer private. Seems after hounding the performer and not getting the result they have asked for it tends to result in insults made by the viewer.
Would just like to point out to those who do this to take into account that many performers are on the site for specific reasons and not here to be treated in such a way.
It is one thing to make a request but treating performers on the site this way is somewhat disgusting.
I am pretty sure this forum thread will get a bit of flack, and frankly do not care.



@Gofish - so true! I see this happen way more than it should frankly, and I have also had performers tell me about some of the rude demands they get from some users too.
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@Gofish - so true! I see this happen way more than it should frankly, and I have also had performers tell me about some of the rude demands they get from some users too.


Glad to know I am not the only one who see it.

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Have notice that there are some viewers making requests of a performer to to do something and they they will either tip or take the performer private. Seems after hounding the performer and not getting the result they have asked for it tends to result in insults made by the viewer.
Would just like to point out to those who do this to take into account that many performers are on the site for specific reasons and not here to be treated in such a way.
It is one thing to make a request but treating performers on the site this way is somewhat disgusting.
I am pretty sure this forum thread will get a bit of flack, and frankly do not care.


More phony sanctimony--could you tell us what the "specific reasons" many of the performers are on the site for--my impression was that they were here to earn money by showing off their bodies and maybe masturbating in private or possibly publicly for us while we do the same all the while hiding our true selves and our true identities. Yes people are insulting but this is a pay for porn site and it attracts a certain number of bottom-feeders--haven't you learned that yet if not you are blind and( hopefully this isn't too "disrespectful" ) intellectually challenged. Frankly many of the performers on this site are more disrespectful than I could ever be-- being a good tipper I can't believe how many of the models on this site are just plain stupid in terms of how to handle a potential whale tipper--not seen on other sites by the way. Many of these models just start demanding tips immediately even after they get a good introductory tip can't say I always blame them since it's a job to them. But we are paying customers and pay good money for credits and deserve just as much "respect" as them. Your constant self righteous comments about respect on a site like this are ridiculous---if you don't like how somone behaves just leave that room and forget about it stop telling the rest of us how to behave. And yes you're getting flack about this thread and I don't care if you don't care because your remarks are tiresome.

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More phony sanctimony--could you tell us what the "specific reasons" many of the performers are on the site for--my impression was that they were here to earn money by showing off their bodies and maybe masturbating in private or possibly publicly for us while we do the same all the while hiding our true selves and our true identities. Yes people are insulting but this is a pay for porn site and it attracts a certain number of bottom-feeders--haven't you learned that yet if not you are blind and( hopefully this isn't too "disrespectful" ) intellectually challenged. Frankly many of the performers on this site are more disrespectful than I could ever be-- being a good tipper I can't believe how many of the models on this site are just plain stupid in terms of how to handle a potential whale tipper--not seen on other sites by the way. Many of these models just start demanding tips immediately even after they get a good introductory tip can't say I always blame them since it's a job to them. But we are paying customers and pay good money for credits and deserve just as much "respect" as them. Your constant self righteous comments about respect on a site like this are ridiculous---if you don't like how somone behaves just leave that room and forget about it stop telling the rest of us how to behave. And yes you're getting flack about this thread and I don't care if you don't care because your remarks are tiresome.




Respect is a two-way street while I agree some models are disrespectful and deserve a taste of their own medicine. I also agree that some users are just obnoxious with the disrespect towards the models especially when they can’t have their way, if the so called introductory tip is so impressive then the model would be moved to do something of the so called request! They do have the right to deny or refuse or accept a request with whatever tip that being offered! But I don’t think gofish is trying to tell anyone how to conduct their self, that should be common sense, and if anyone doesn’t have that knowledge to have respect then sorry to them! Also it’s okay to agree to disagree with someone’s forum
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Respect is a two-way street while I agree some models are disrespectful and deserve a taste of their own medicine. I also agree that some users are just obnoxious with the disrespect towards the models especially when they can’t have their way, if the so called introductory tip is so impressive then the model would be moved to do something of the so called request! They do have the right to deny or refuse or accept a request with whatever tip that being offered! But I don’t think gofish is trying to tell anyone how to conduct their self, that should be common sense, and if anyone doesn’t have that knowledge to have respect then sorry to them! Also it’s okay to agree to disagree with someone’s forum


Well said there gr8bussykilla.
In the case of viewers they have to option just to leave the chatroom where as with models/performers I do believe they can ban the member from the room which probably will not get a positive response from the site. As you say respect is a two way street.

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Respect is a two-way street while I agree some models are disrespectful and deserve a taste of their own medicine. I also agree that some users are just obnoxious with the disrespect towards the models especially when they can’t have their way, if the so called introductory tip is so impressive then the model would be moved to do something of the so called request! They do have the right to deny or refuse or accept a request with whatever tip that being offered! But I don’t think gofish is trying to tell anyone how to conduct their self, that should be common sense, and if anyone doesn’t have that knowledge to have respect then sorry to them! Also it’s okay to agree to disagree with someone’s forum

I never said anything about respect not being a two way street in fact I said models should respect us just as we should respect them--thats not the point the point was his original comment was "after hounding the performers.... results in insults made by the viewer...treating performers this way is disgusting". If that isn't instructing us on our behavior I don't know what is. Once again its not really that complicated--if you"re not happy with a model leave the room, if you are the model and you're not happy with the customer ban him--case closed. Why is everyone on this thread especially
gofer fisher so invested in other people's behavior. I have been on site for 2-3 years and frankly have never ever seen hounding of a model by a viewer or ever seen a viewer start insulting a model (at least not on public chat) so I can't believe that happens that often in the first place and even if it does just IGNORE it stop telling us about it in these silly posts that imply shaming! It's no different than what happens in the real world. These models and the viewers for that matter aren't infants there is going to be behavior not to everyone's liking--get over it. I think this thread should focus on Male Performers --which performers does everyone have a good experience with and who do we all have a bad experience with and we should name names kind of like a Tripadvisor or yelp site--why not funnel the business to the good and funnel it away from the bad. I have found a bunch of great models that I go back to time and again and and who many times message me asking where I am (admittedly probably because they know I will tip but I understand that) and would be glad to promote them on a site like this, I also have have encountered models that are basically greedy creeps who I will never try to encounter again in fact I have said to models like this look do me a big favor ban me from your room in case I forget who they are. But all these silly comments people especially some make about how people act in rooms, about whispering, go fisher making comments about models being on here for "specific reasons" (how patronizing can you be--maybe they just like showing off and masturbating in public) and all these other behavioral comments is so unproductive. I don't know but you don't see many models responding to these silly comments on this thread--maybe there just laughing about it. But if we start commenting on specific models their pros and cons how much they charge how much they perform etc etc it might all change. Think about it.


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I never said anything about respect not being a two way street in fact I said models should respect us just as we should respect them--thats not the point the point was his original comment was "after hounding the performers.... results in insults made by the viewer...treating performers this way is disgusting". If that isn't instructing us on our behavior I don't know what is. Once again its not really that complicated--if you"re not happy with a model leave the room, if you are the model and you're not happy with the customer ban him--case closed. Why is everyone on this thread especially
gofer fisher so invested in other people's behavior. I have been on site for 2-3 years and frankly have never ever seen hounding of a model by a viewer or ever seen a viewer start insulting a model (at least not on public chat) so I can't believe that happens that often in the first place and even if it does just IGNORE it stop telling us about it in these silly posts that imply shaming! It's no different than what happens in the real world. These models and the viewers for that matter aren't infants there is going to be behavior not to everyone's liking--get over it. I think this thread should focus on Male Performers --which performers does everyone have a good experience with and who do we all have a bad experience with and we should name names kind of like a Tripadvisor or yelp site--why not funnel the business to the good and funnel it away from the bad. I have found a bunch of great models that I go back to time and again and and who many times message me asking where I am (admittedly probably because they know I will tip but I understand that) and would be glad to promote them on a site like this, I also have have encountered models that are basically greedy creeps who I will never try to encounter again in fact I have said to models like this look do me a big favor ban me from your room in case I forget who they are. But all these silly comments people especially some make about how people act in rooms, about whispering, go fisher making comments about models being on here for "specific reasons" (how patronizing can you be--maybe they just like showing off and masturbating in public) and all these other behavioral comments is so unproductive. I don't know but you don't see many models responding to these silly comments on this thread--maybe there just laughing about it. But if we start commenting on specific models their pros and cons how much they charge how much they perform etc etc it might all change. Think about it.






I never said that you insisted on respect not being a two way street, again it’s okay to agree to disagree instead of arguing about what someone posted, you do understand people will be people and they will post whatever they wish to post . But instead of moving on from the post and continuing to enjoy your time you chose to continue to entertain this post . So with that being said again agree to disagree! Quote

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Often he has extended his instruction to flirt management.
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Glad to know I am not the only one who see it.




@ gofish, and I am also talking mostly about the VIP Welcome Day Shows where some great upcomers are treated so badly by some - Models says thank you for starting the show, VIP user says "show dick and ass now". I wouldn't have the heart to do such, that's just me anyway. My Welcome Day shows may seem boring to some, but I take the time to know them and see them shirtless kind of thing, and they are the ones who tell me how they have been treated by other VIP members that day.
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@gofish - I am guessing you are enjoying all the attention you are getting :-)


daniga22 sort of like a LOVE HATE situation. Oh the excitement of these forums.
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@gofish - I am guessing you are enjoying all the attention you are getting :-)


daniga22 sort of like a LOVE HATE situation. Oh the excitement of these forums.
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and I am also talking mostly about the VIP Welcome Day Shows

@alex2259 I am not a VIP member. What is a VIP Welcome Day Show?


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@alex2259 I am not a VIP member. What is a VIP Welcome Day Show?




@ daniga22 - I love it! When you go to the F4F two week calendar, some days will have a newer model shown in bright green with the logo "VIP Welcome Day Show" on their picture. If you are a VIP and you are online during their time, your first 5 minutes in private with them is free. Should you choose to tip during the show is up to you, and should you extend the show beyond 5 minutes is up to you and the model. All of this provided you have enough credits in your account to pay for the show, even though they are not withdrawn unless you tip or go beyond 5 minutes. Great way to meet new models too! :D ALEX

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@alex2259 Oh I see. Thank you.


@ daniga22 - you are totally welcome! ALEX
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